As hopeful as the statistics are, there will be our loved ones who won’t win their battle. They will die. And it will hurt, so much. But the one good thing, if there is such a thing, from death by breast cancer versus some other way is that it gives her, and you, time to work through everything between you before she leaves. It’s a chance to clean the slate. If your loved one had a heart attack, died in a car crash, had a brain aneurism, whatever, they would be gone, and closure would not be possible. So, if your loved one is dying of breast cancer, use this time wisely, and work all the things that need to be worked out between you – before it’s too late.


One Comment
I have not read the book and probaly will not read it. I was diagnosed October 1, 2010 so I am obviously in the early stages of this journey.
My husband has absolutely been my rock, yes he is working as am I at this point. We do not have children but I have certainly given thought to what happens if I don’t survive. I want only the best for my husband and will do whatever planning available to assure he will have this should I not survive.
Even so early on in this challenge I think we are closer than when first diagnosed and we were already blessed with a great marriage.
I am blessed with a great support system, family & Church family. I have met some of the nicest health professionals during this short time and know without a doubt who is REALLY IN CONTROL. I trust HIM and know he will take care of us. GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME!